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Becky Handley Old Profile's avatar

I am officially Rebecca but it's definitely not my name. I've been Becky to everyone as long as I can remember. Even on the back of my baby photographs, I stop being referred to as Rebecca really earlier on. I am definitely Becky.

But, it is funny how people do call you different things. Like a lot of people call me Beck or Bex but I would never introduce myself as that. I don't mind either but I don't consider either of them my name like I do Becky.

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A. Wilder Westgate's avatar

I really relate to this. I've never connected with my given name. I decided to use my first initial (A) and added Wilder as a middle name for Substack because it felt right, and I enjoy being referred to as "A." by people who interact with me here. I still haven't fully decided what it stands for, if anything. And I can't bring myself to change it in "real life" yet, because I'm not sure hearing the "A" pronounced out loud will hit the same, but here we are.

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