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Allie Warren's avatar

Thanks so much for sharing this, Louise, it resonated a lot! I’ve recently become self employed to better manage my resources and even though I’m working for myself now, it’s still a challenge to manage my energy and I’ve had to remind myself that I need a lot more recharging time than I think I do!

I’m travelling up to Birmingham from London to deliver a workshop next month and like you, have factored in an overnight stay as I know that trying to travel on the day and then speak would have been impossible! It’s frustrating as I do feel like it’s an extra tax but I’m also grateful to have the self awareness now after diagnosis to know what my needs are and hold those boundaries.

Thanks for sharing so openly, it’s always so nice to know that other people understand.

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Ali Pember's avatar

I've just responded to your note, Louise, but also wanted to add to the comments here as I think this is such an interesting topic.

I don't identify as ND, but I am part of an ND family. I also have chronic health issues and am highly sensitive, so this means I often over-estimate what I can accomplish and become dysregulated

So I definitely value predictability and routine. And regular top ups of my special interests which include silent retreats, writing/reading poetry, and watching cooking shows to kind of pretend I'm there while cooking to a different recipe!

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